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January 24, 2017

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I intended to write an article today about office potlucks and how they are the bane of my existence (to come at a later date), but I ended up in a discussion recently regarding the level of loyalty employees have to their employers, of which, is rarely reciprocated. My close friends and colleagues are well aware of how passionate I am about leadership and constructive behavior in the workplace. It is with this, Chris Brown’s song, ‘Loyal’ came to mind.

There is a mutual descent of loyalty in the working world today. Companies are outsourcing, avoiding the maternity/paternity leave conversation, bucking against flex time, decreasing overhead as much as possible, and the list goes on. At the same time, employees are taking on entrepreneurship opportunities and hopping to various companies as they see fit. Being in recruiting for over a decade I can truly see both sides of the coin. I have experienced the pain of organizational disloyalty and it definitely hurts the workforce in a major way.

While loyalty and trust is a two-way street, the bigger part of that burden in my opinion, is on leadership. A major gap in employee/employer trust is lack of sufficient leadership. In HR you see everything, for the most part, and a majority of relational issues in the workplace stem from inadequate management. I’ve have been exposed to so many companies where managers do not get the necessary training to manage people, especially in a way that is human and understanding. I’m not stating that people should be able to do whatever they want and the company just has to deal with it. Depending on the environment, if a company has a person working above capacity, meeting deadlines, attracting clients, and making a positive change in the bottom line, why wouldn’t said company want to be flexible and extend a few liberties to encourage the employee to stay the course.

This is where loyalty comes in. For the employees that put their all into their work, as much as they think it counts towards their future, companies don’t seem to hesitate when they make changes and send employees home with a pink slip and severance. Employees seem to have gotten a good glimpse into this scenario, which leads us to the “job hopper.” I hear so many hiring managers say, “I don’t want to see candidates who switch jobs every 18-24 months.” I understand the sentiment but as I mentioned, many companies lack the leadership to retain loyal employees, don’t foster growth and development, or provide resources to be successful. In those cases, I would have left the company too. On the other hand, employees shouldn’t be so quick to throw away the benefit of the doubt with regards to their employers, creating a track record of not being able to complete things long-term (a top reason for a rejection when pursuing a job these days).

The best way to build a bridge of loyalty and trust is to be open and honest. Lots of things can be solved if employers and employees have conversations from the beginning that foster a healthy and trustworthy relationship.

What are your thoughts on loyalty in the workplace? Share in the comments.

 

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So nasty and so rude!

December 21, 2016

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I hope my readers don’t mind if I pause on the jobs and beauty talks, to discuss a topic that’s so prevalent in Corporate America today…BULLIES! Most people have experienced a bully a time or two in school, but unfortunately it happens in offices everyday. What is a bully, exactly? In most cases, a bully is someone that uses their power or appearance of power to intimidate or coerce someone to do what they want. This behavior is completely unacceptable! One of my biggest pet peeves is watching an insecure and unprofessional person bully a subordinate or peer. Honestly, for me that would be a reason I would strongly consider making some changes. People go to work to pursue their passions and grow as a professional, not to relive high school hallway disrespect.

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When you are dealing with a bully in the workplace there must definitely be a strategy to work through the relationship.  I don’t recommend having an altercation at work but I know people have limits, so here are a few tips on how to handle an office bully effectively:

  1. Try to speak with the person in a calm, constructive manner (in-person if possible)
  2. Let someone (Supervisor, HR) know, for possible mediation
  3. Document occurrences
  4. Create boundaries of interaction with the person (See 5 & 6 if your leader is the bully)
  5. File a formal complaint
  6. Find another great opportunity!

Have you encountered an office bully in your career? How did you handle the situation? Discuss in the comments.

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Coats, Color, and Character

December 1, 2016

Our resident style contributor, R. Rene is visiting the salon and spicing up your Friday Eve with her take on Coats, Color, and Character in the workplace!

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Greetings Career Enthusiasts!

Fall/Winter Season has arrived and it’s time to embrace such in style both during and after work hours.  Many may differ due to the uncertainty and unpredictable nature of the fall weather but this by far is one of my favorite seasons!  Like many careers, the fall season forces you to adopt new habits, wear more layers and embrace change daily.   So let’s talk style!

You are a walking brand, that’s my motto and my daily mental reminder for everything I do.  Because of such, what I wear becomes very important to me and it’s no different when the season changes. People tend to judge the book of style by its cover rather they are true to admit it or not and as a result I would like to ensure that if they must judge they do so well when our style character is in question. To embrace this season change and style critics around the office, airport and in the field, I have to challenge the likes of all of you career enthusiasts and future ladder climbers to begin to debunk a few work fashion myths!

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“Coats/Jackets are boring”—- says no wo/man ever!  Its fall and all-weather coats are totally in.  A nice jacket can set the stage for the clean, crisp look that comes along with being VICE PRESIDENT or CEO.  The Midwest and Northeast regions can contest that coats can make or break an outfit when the wind blows.  Grab yourself a good lined Trench ladies and gents, thinly lined to maintain a sleek look on the go.   For those of you in the sunshine states of the world you really don’t get to embrace the coat season like others but this does NOT me you are exempt from owing a good coat or jacket. I would ask that you even evaluate the jackets and blazers you wear into meetings with clients and around the office.  If you are going to wear it, make it count and wear it well!!

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“Color goes out with summer”: No! Color tells a story of character, boldness and confidence like no other, so with the rapid color changes of the leaves around you change the color in that wardrobe. While the classic white shirt never gets old and the blues, blacks and greys will remain staple pieces. There is absolutely nothing wrong with adding a pop of color to that dress or suit with a sprinkle of fall goodness like Wines and Reds, Autumn Orange, Tans and dark greens it will make for much conversation and tell a story all by itself about your career style!

What does your current coat say about you?  Any color? —– Scared to try it!?  Be a trendsetter, black is your canvas and color makes the picture!  GO FOR IT! Find character in both your coat and your colors this fall as you prepare to dive into new areas of your career! Character is key!

A few of my favorite places to get great coats, jackets and plenty of color for both men and women at any price level.  Happy Shopping and be sure to look for those FALL SPECIALS! 

You will thank me later!

www.asos.com

www.bluefly.com

www.bananarepublic.com

www.hm.com

 R. Rene,

www.lifebrandfactory.com 

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Hotline Bling: Getting Companies to Call you Back

November 3, 2016

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I recently attended a scholarship breakfast for a local school of business in the area.  A top businessman was the keynote speaker and the topic was “Disruptive Leadership.” It was really interesting to hear about leadership, uncertainty and strategies on thinking ahead and preparing for change and industry advancements. To sum up the talk, sometimes to get things done things have to be disrupted. I thought this discussion could definitely apply to job seekers.

As you look for job opportunities there is a measure of uncertainty, because once you express your interest in a company or position, often times you are left wondering what will happen next. If you want the “Hotline to Bling” you need to implement a disruptive leadership approach to job searching. You can’t just sit there and wait! Let’s think outside the box and be unique. As a recruiter, I love when quality and qualified candidates reach out to me via various mediums it show grit and well, disruptive leadership. In a situation where there is a mound of uncertainty, a candidate took the time to find me and express interest, that’s AWESOME! All of the jobs I’ve had in my career have been because of God and the guts to go out and get what I wanted. Here are some things that you probably already know but that stand as reminder of what you need to do for companies to call you back:

  1. Use Social Media
    • There are literally conferences that recruiters go to that teach them how to use social media to find great candidates. Reverse engineer that and initiate engagement with recruiters or hiring managers on social media for your benefit.
  2. Go to Networking Events
    • Networking events have become much more results-oriented than those random career fairs at large conference centers. Let Google be your friend and find out what’s going on in your city to network with companies, in person.
  3. Pick up the phone!
    • Some online job descriptions say ‘no calls please’ but those that don’t are fair game. Pick up the phone and call the recruiter or hiring manager (don’t stalk them and call repeatedly but you can call to see the status of your application if you hadn’t heard anything in a while).

Now that I’ve reminded you of “disruptive” things to do, what are are you going to do to get your hotline to bling?

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If you asked me to…

October 26, 2016

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I just love having my own website to express myself the way I want. You’ll notice that my blog titles often relate to music, movies, or pop culture and this week is no different.  I’ve had conversations over the years and just this week, which have prompted me to talk to you all about asking for what you want in your career transactions. Patti LaBelle said it best, “If you asked me to, I just might change my mind and let you in my heart forever!”  Sometimes all it takes is an ASK, to a future employer or a client even. A question that is posed to me more often than not is, “They offered me this amount, can I ask for more?” Are you  kidding me!? Why yes you can ask for more. At the table with a client and prefer something in the contract that they haven’t offered? Just ask!

When you’ve taken steps to build your education, experience, and a track record of amazing work, you can literally ask for what you want. I’ve experienced so many times in my career, extending an offer to a candidate and they come back to negotiate (money, vacation, relocation, etc). Sometimes companies may not have the resources to accommodate, but in a lot of cases employers will exceed their initial offer to acquire a candidate with a ‘hot’ skill set or knowledge to get them to the next level. Now this is definitely not to say this happens for everyone, you need have something going for you that employers can’t live without. Whatever that is in your specific field, figure it out. If you’re stuck in the same technology and haven’t gone to get training or gain experience in the new stuff, do that now!  Make yourself irresistible so that when you put the ASK on the table the employer just might consider. Here are some tips to prepare for the ASK:

  1. Educate yourself
    1. Research the market and gather facts
    2. Make sure you’ve prepared yourself throughout your career to build a case for attaining the things you want
  2. Have confidence
    1. Know your worth in the marketplace
    2. Build your confidence by improving and gaining new skills that separate you from others
  3. Be tactful
    1. Chose a proper time to ask for what you want
    2. Be courteous
  4. Possess finesse
    1. Have some subtly about yourself
    2. Be strategic

I’ll leave you with a little Patti to end your day!

 

 

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Style Resume Thursday: LaNise Walker

October 20, 2016

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Excitement is overflowing, as we have the super smart and fashionable LaNise Walker in the salon today! The Detroit native is hipping us to a little about herself and the awesome Goody2shoes Mobile Boutique. While others may scroll through Instagram liking Beyoncé’s latest video, LaNise Walker found a lucrative obsession for fashion trucks and essentially her calling as an entrepreneur. In 2015 she established Goody2Shoes Mobile Boutique and dawned a new era of convenient, fashion on demand in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area. Goody2Shoes delivers the flyest shoes, handbags, and other accessories to various venues by offering a revolutionary on-the-go approach to shopping. Fiercely fashionable, this young innovator is following her passion ensuring every customer leaves with a smile from finding just the right accessories to slay.

Experience:
What’s your current occupation and how long have you been in your career? 

I have two careers- Learning Specialist most days and shoe lover EVERYDAY! I have been in the education world since 2003. I started as a middle school Math teacher and transitioned into teaching adults for corporate America in 2008. While my love for fashion and shoes started in my childhood years, I became an entrepreneur in 2015!

Education:
Where did your style originate and who or what are some of your influences?

My style came from the women in my family. They were creative, original, ahead of their time, and fearless! These women entered rooms and owned them with their charisma and eye catching presence. I like to say it was something I grew up loving and learning. Besides them, I am influenced by food. I know that sounds weird, but if you can imagine a picture perfect plate, there’s probably lots of color, the right amount of each ingredient (proportions), a great foundation, and a some extra. That’s how I dress; I love mixing colors and basics with a popping shoe and statement jewelry!

References:
Who are some of your favorite designers? What stores do you prefer to shop?
From St. John’s classic knit staples, to Nicki Minaj’s über trendy leggings, I have so many! As you can tell, I like to mix brands- high with low, so I shop anywhere from Neiman Marcus to consignment shops! My go to places for something to wear right away are Zara, Forever21, JCPenney, and TJMaxx.

Do you think personal style is important as it relates to your work?   If so, how?                                                    I believe that you should dress in what makes you feel good. We do our best work when we feel our best. Yes, to a degree I think personal style is important because we should be comfortable with who we are and that should reflect in how we present ourselves and in our quality of work. At the same time, I am a firm believer that everything isn’t work appropriate. There are heels too high, skirts too short, tops too low and clothing fitting too close.  

If you had a dream career/occupation what would it be?
It may sound cliché, but I have started working on my dream, helping other women showcase their personal style and feeling confident while doing so! 🙂

What’s the best career advice you could give someone seeking a new career?
Be yourself. Be prepared. Remain humble yet honest. Always ask questions. Be coachable; no one likes a know-it-all!

Quote that keeps you motivated?

Romans 8:28

28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

This keeps me grounded and helps me remember to take the good with the bad because everything is working out for the good! God is always taking care of me.

To keep up with LaNise and Goody2Shoes Mobile Boutique follow her Instagram @goody2shoesbtq or shop her website for great fashion finds! If you are in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, you can meet LaNise this Saturday, October 22, 2016 at the Fashion Truck Takeover.

 

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